Mom and family thinks Im going to turn into a whore :(?

Tell her that your clothes will not change who you are. If you were a whore you would already be slutting around and going behind your parents back with trampy outfits. Tell her that you just feel ugly because your constantly dressed in ugly clothes. Maybe you can convince her to let you have more control one step at a time. Like first she could let you wear mascara, then shorts, then heels, etc.